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Andrea

The Lying Life of Adults

Andrea, Giovanna’s father, is defined by a divide between the educated, intellectually ambitious man he presents to his daughter and the unresolved family ties, marital betrayals, and private dependencies he cannot keep outside her view. His estrangement from his relatives, his changing friendship with Mariano, and his long relationship with Costanza entangle Giovanna in adult conflicts; as their household breaks apart, she increasingly turns to Roberto for the guidance and confidence Andrea once seemed able to provide.

Identity and Background

Andrea lives in a part of Naples that feels far removed from his origins. Giovanna grows up on the Vomero, where familiar streets, Villa Floridiana, and her schoolmates give the upper city a feeling of belonging. Her father’s relatives, by contrast, occupy a poorly defined lower world reached by a long descent. Her parents make daily journeys into central Naples for work, shopping, study, and debate, yet visits to Andrea’s family leave them unusually weary and tense. The city’s vertical geography thus gives physical form to a family division: the relatives belong to the same Naples, but Andrea’s household behaves as if the distance between them were almost that between separate cities.

When Andrea finally takes Giovanna to his childhood neighborhood, he drives through districts of bleak apartment blocks, warehouses, damaged walls, and neglected open spaces. He tells her that he was born and raised there, that his family was poor, and points out the building where he lived and where Vittoria still lives. His gesture makes visible what had previously been only a difficult, unnamed destination in his daughter’s imagination. The disclosure does not, however, reconcile him with the relatives he has left behind.

Family Estrangement and the Work of Looking

Andrea’s relatives have appeared only intermittently in Giovanna’s life, at weddings and funerals, amid what she experiences as strained displays of affection. Her maternal grandparents and uncle had been a familiar, loving presence; her father’s family remained largely unknown. This contrast helps explain why Vittoria’s sudden tours of the paternal kin feel like an exposure of something Andrea has kept out of sight.

During those visits, Vittoria introduces Giovanna to Andrea’s siblings and their families, including Nicola, Anna, and Rosetta. She stresses that these are Giovanna’s blood relatives and faults Andrea for depriving his daughter of their warmth. Their modest homes and cordial Neapolitan speech challenge Giovanna’s inherited assumptions about refinement: the relatives welcome her without demanding that she carry messages to her father, and call her Giannina, a name her parents never use. In their company, she feels more relaxed and affectionate than she expects. Nicola remembers Vittoria’s fondness for strawberry gelato and sends a child to buy some for everyone when Giovanna says she likes it too. The relatives’ tenderness toward Vittoria, whom they treat with care, also complicates the picture of her that Andrea’s household has supplied.

Vittoria makes looking into an explicit lesson, accusing Giovanna of seeing without noticing what might disturb her. That instruction becomes consequential when Giovanna observes her mother and Mariano behaving with a closeness she cannot comfortably interpret. She considers telling Vittoria, who would be likely to give the scene a hostile meaning, but decides against it. Andrea is not the person Giovanna is watching in that moment, yet her silence and uncertainty become part of the family crisis that later reaches him.

Marriage, Friendship, and Separation

The breakdown of Andrea’s relationship with Mariano becomes unmistakable in a violent argument at Mariano’s apartment on Via Cimarosa. Their discussion begins on familiar intellectual subjects—politics, Marxism, history, and economics—but turns into a personal rupture. Mariano orders Andrea out, and Andrea answers with words in a dialect he does not ordinarily use. When Costanza leaves after Mariano insults her, Andrea runs after her. Their daughters hear the quarrel and sense that its cause is not simply the ideas their fathers have debated for years. Andrea’s friendship with Mariano, once associated with study and confidences, has become inseparable from the damage to both men’s marriages.

Giovanna later imagines that the fight followed from Vittoria informing Andrea about what she had seen between her mother and Mariano. She also links the conflict to Costanza’s arrival at her home, the bracelet Costanza returns, and her mother’s changed manner. These are Giovanna’s attempts to assemble what the adults have not explained, not a complete account of the quarrel. The uncertainty is important: Andrea’s family crisis is first experienced by his daughter through gestures, absences, and competing interpretations rather than through a clear confession.

It takes Andrea and Nella almost two years to separate, although they spend only brief periods living under the same roof during the crisis. Andrea disappears for weeks at a time, leaving Giovanna afraid that he may have died. She later learns that he has been living in a house in Posillipo given to Costanza by her parents; Costanza is now in a lasting conflict with Mariano. When Andrea returns to Nella and Giovanna, he is courteous and affectionate, and seems to want a reconciliation. After a few days, however, the arguments resume. The parents agree on one restriction: Giovanna should not see Vittoria. Their shared prohibition persists even as their marriage fails, while Vittoria herself withdraws from Giovanna’s life for a time.

Confession and a Changed Father-Daughter Bond

After Giovanna leaves Costanza’s birthday gathering with the bracelet, Andrea drives her home, visibly upset. He fears that she blames him for destroying Nella’s life and now intends to harm his own, Costanza’s, and the girls’ lives in return. He notices that Giovanna is afraid of him and tries to reassure her: the crisis is difficult, he says, and he hopes to become again the person she knows. His speech combines a plea for understanding with a revelation of how little she has previously been told.

Andrea says he has loved Nella since their school days and still loves her, but also says that he has loved Costanza since before Giovanna’s birth. He describes the closeness among the four young friends—himself, Nella, Mariano, and Costanza—and presents his relationship with Costanza as beginning under the sign of friendship and sympathy for her marriage to Mariano. He says the two of them traveled together for work, spent an evening talking, and crossed a boundary in their relationship. His account also contains an admission that he had been unfaithful to Nella, despite his insistence that his feelings for both Nella and his daughter remain. For Giovanna, this explanation does not settle the past so much as reveal how many years of adult intimacy were concealed behind the family’s familiar arrangements.

Andrea’s attempt to speak honestly is still shaped by self-defense. He describes Costanza as a sisterly figure and Mariano as the friend with whom he studied and confided, while acknowledging that his attachment to Costanza became something else. The explanation gives Giovanna information she did not have, but it does not restore the authority of his earlier assurances. The father who asks for time and promises to return to himself is also the man whose account of his relationships has shifted as their consequences become impossible to hide.

Decline of Authority and Narrative Significance

Giovanna’s school success briefly improves relations at home, and Andrea becomes proud of her again. Yet she feels that her parents’ shadows remain an irritating part of herself. She begins calling them by their names, first as an ironic gesture and then as a deliberate rejection of the parental bond. Nella, increasingly weakened and preoccupied with Andrea, asks Giovanna to take responsibility for herself. Andrea, meanwhile, continues offering life advice when he sees his daughter, including during visits in Posillipo or casual meals near her school.

That advice loses force as Giovanna’s relationship with Roberto develops. She values the friendship because Roberto restores confidence that Andrea once took from her, and she is proud to mention him to her father. Andrea listens closely, admires Roberto’s scholarly reputation, and sometimes asks to meet him. He speaks of Roberto as someone who escaped Naples and built a distinguished academic career in Milan, and even suggests that being among people better than oneself is a way to rise rather than fall. His admiration carries a faint envy; to Giovanna, it also makes him seem smaller and more dependent on a world beyond the quarrels that have shaped his life.

Andrea’s authority is further unsettled by the consequences of Tonino’s departure from Angela’s life. Angela tells Giovanna that Andrea blamed her for failing to protect her, arguing that she knew what sort of people Tonino and his family were. Giovanna rejects Angela’s accusation and tells her to rely instead on Andrea and Costanza, whom Angela trusts more. She then strengthens her ties with Giuliana, using that friendship to keep Angela at a distance. Andrea’s judgment thus enters another friendship already strained by competing loyalties, but it does not determine Giovanna’s response.

Much later, Andrea tells Giovanna that reconciliation with Vittoria is impossible, yet credits his daughter with acting as a bridge between them as the years pass. His praise—that she is clever and like him—suggests a changed relationship: he recognizes her agency in a family division he could not repair himself. Andrea remains an affectionate father at moments and a source of advice, but his concealments, departures, and divided loyalties have taught Giovanna to treat his words cautiously. The same distance between the upper city and his childhood neighborhood that first marked his estrangement from kin becomes a pattern in his intimate life: connection is repeatedly desired, interrupted, and restored only in partial, uneasy forms.